Dads on TV get a bad rap, right? They’re either clueless, or careless, or bumbling, or mean. But there are some–and were some–who are great examples of what dads should be.
Recently on Instagram, we posed the question, “Who is the best TV dad of all time?” We got some… interesting responses. Forty-four in all! Here are some of the top vote-getters and what makes them great.
The number 1 spot goes to…
– Hard worker. Willing to go to a somewhat demeaning job every day to provide for his family.
– Protective of his daughter, proud of his son’s intellect.
– Not super engaged.
– Overwhelmingly focused on his exploits in the 1966 High School Football City Championship game instead of, you know, his current family.
– Claims he doesn’t really like his family (even if that’s not entirely true.)
– Accepted Will virtually immediately as his own, while still having three of his own biological children
– Could turn just about anything into a life lesson
– Never shied away from a hug
– Could be loud and demanding
– Had extremely high expectations
– Sometimes flashed a temper
– Understood the value of hard work
– Not shy of lavishing spoils on his daughter
– Truly wants the best for his family, even if he doesn’t know how to show it
– Doesn’t know how to show he truly wants the best for his family
– Calls his son “dumbass”
– Can be over-the-top in his disciplinarianism.
– Worked hard at maintaining relationships with his sons and wife
– Cared deeply for his family
– Not afraid to seek advice when needed, usually from next-door neighbor Wilson.
– Communication is not a strong suit. Often devolved into grunting.
– Uber-masculine tendencies could sometimes blind him to actual feelings
– Blew stuff up a lot
– Always fully present with his family. Never seems like he’s one foot (er, paw) in, one out.
– Secure enough to be as silly as his kids want to be
– Quick thinking and creative to play along with his kids however they’d like.
– Some episodes allow kids to be bratty and whiney and tantrums are given into
– Understands his responsibility as breadwinner for the family
– Willing to admit when he is wrong, especially in marital disagreements.
– Very protective of his daughters
– Can come down hard on son Eddie and neighbor Steve
– Often unwilling to pay for services around the house and tries to do them himself, often with disastrous results
– Can let ego get him in trouble
– Family is always tops on his mind
– Never misses a chance to teach son Opie a life lesson in the most caring way possible
– Not too full of himself to have some fun and make others laugh
– Can be so focused on teaching he misses the facts of a situation
– Could be very, very strict
One notable addition…
Walter White, Breaking Bad
Walter White got two votes. Was he a good dad? HE WAS A MANIACAL DRUG KINGPIN, OF COURSE, HE WASN’T A GOOD DAD. But. His initial motivation was pure. ***SPOILERS*** He was dying. He didn’t have any money. He needed to make a load of cash quick so his family would be taken care of after he passed. Of course, he didn’t die (at least, when he expected to), and his once pure motivation quickly spiraled out of control, destroying his life and the one thing he wanted to protect–his family.
The lesson is, yes, we have to work hard to provide for our family. Sometimes we have to take chances or risks. But we cannot lose ourselves in our work and lose sight of the ultimate reason why we do this in the first place.
And please don’t make meth.